How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home

How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home

pagankids-300x186I recently read an article by  that challenged me greatly. It was titled, “How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home.” He began his article by saying we are teaching the wrong things to our kids because we are confused about what our objectives ought to be as Christian parents and leaders. We are tremendously influenced by our culture even as Christians.

His comments were spurred by something he heard Phil Vischer, creator of the Veggie Tales series say. After ten years of writing Veggie Tales, Phil had a revelation that he had actually not been teaching kids Christianity in Veggie Tales at all. But instead had been teaching kids to try to behave like Christians whether they were or not. (Hmmmm…if you have never watched that old movie Time Changer with Gavin McLoud, now would be a good time.)

MORALITY, BUT NOT CHRISTIANITY

Phil was quoted as saying, “You can say, “Hey kids, be more forgiving because the Bible says so,” or “Hey kids, be more kind because the Bible says so!” But that isn’t Christianity, it’s morality. . .We’re drinking a cocktail that’s a mix of the Protestant work ethic, the American dream, and the gospel. And we’ve intertwined them so completely that we can’t tell them apart anymore. Our gospel has become a gospel of following your dreams and being good so God will make all your dreams come true. It’s the Oprah god.” The perfect storm on How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home…

(I’ve been very frustrated over the years to find how many churches have used Veggies Tales to babysit their kids when no leader was available. Now I know ever more why these videos bothered me in the way they were being used–a very poor, inefficient alternative to the meat of the gospel!)


BE GOOD CUZ’ THE BIBLE TELLS US SO

Thus, as Barrett points out we can teach our children to “be good because the Bible tells us so” but is that what is going to change their lives? What do we know? We know the Bible message is that we can never be good enough apart from the grace of God. Barrett says, “One leads to moralism; the other leads to brokenness. One leads to self-righteousness; the other leads to a life that realizes that Christ is everything and that nothing else matters.”

This would be why the most common question children’s pastors are asked by parents every Sunday is “Did my child behave him/herself?” It’s as though their behavior is proof of their parenting skills or the child’s spirituality. We have to consider the key objectives of why we encourage moral behavior in our kids. Yes, we want good citizens, and children need to learn good character. But we must remember that good moral character traits in and of themselves have little to do with our goals of walking with God. Good character is the fruit of our relationship with Him, not our lives apart from Him.

THEY STILL DON’T KNOW THEIR GOD

I’ve believed for years through observing children, now young people, who have gone through our Sunday Schools, that a child can know all of the Bible Stories and still not know their God. They can tell you exactly how many stones David picked up in the stream to kill Goliath, but cannot tell you the connection between the Old Testament stories and the New. They can know the story of God creating the world, but don’t have enough understanding to support a biblical worldview, and are easy pray to competing worldviews. They do not have even Bible doctrine in them after twelve to eighteen years of going through our Sunday schools to be able to communicate God’s great love story to mankind in a coherent way. Because we have not taken them seriously as disciples of Christ, they are in every way products of our culture as opposed to the Kingdom of God.

 

ANSWERS THAT WILL CHANGE EVERYTHING

Johnson and Vischer have pointed out the problem, but they have not given us answers. The answers are:

1. Feeding children the meat and substance of God’s word rather than a steady diet of nothing but Bibles stories that end up being more like Aesop’s fables (“and here’s the moral or the story!”) than the living, breathing Word of God,

2. Equipping them for the work of the ministry, disciplining them to be co-laborers in the harvest fields doing the works of Jesus while they are still children, rather than waiting till they become teenagers to take them seriously, and

3. Creating opportunities on a regular basis where they can experience the presence of God in powerful ways–something they might get at kids camp once a year, but actually need on a regular basis in the home and church.

As Barrett said, “The world has enough pagans. Even plenty of really nice ones. What we need is kids who fully grasp the reality that they have nothing to offer, but who intimately know a God who has everything they need.”

FOR MORE INFORMATION

To read Barrett’s entire article click here: How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home

If you would like to know more about how to seriously disciple children for Christ, download a free chapter from my book Redefining Children’s Ministry in the 21st Century.

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3 thoughts on “How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home

  1. Pamela A. writes: OMG. Sometimes it just takes one person to speak what is in the back of the mind/heart of many. If I had said it, it would be criticism, but for the creator of Veggie Tales to say it, there is conviction. Thank you, Phil, and thanks for passing it along, Becky

  2. Rachael H. writes: Concerning the article that Becky put on facebook about night terrors and the revelation that Phil Vischer received from the Lord…

    This statement…
    Phil had a revelation that he had actually not been teaching kids Christianity in Veggie Tales at all. But instead had been teaching kids to try to behave like Christians whether they were or not.

    made me think of statements in a movie put out by TBN several years ago, called TIME CHANGER. And I quote…

    “To put forth the standards of Christ apart from His Name is deadly.

    Satan is not against good morals. He is opposed to Jesus Christ. People can live with good morals all their lives, but you and I, both, know that he will go to Hell when he dies. It is Jesus Christ that everyone needs and the devil knows this more than all of us.

    Satan’s goal is to remove the Name of Christ from His commands. When we do this, people are deceived into thinking that, if they live a good life, they will receive God’s approval. We must not eliminate the authority of Jesus Christ from His commands.”

    These statements validate what the Lord has shown to Phil Vischer.

  3. Hope writes: What bugged me is that Barret never did tell parents how to raise a pagan kid in a Christian home.

    Something stands out to me here. A couple weeks ago my husband and I listened to a recording from the late David Wilkerson. He said decades ago the Lord showed him that in the last days there would be rebellious teens/young adults living in rebellion inside their parents homes. They’d have a truce of sorts to basically ignore each other, but that Christian kids would blatantly defy God and parents and still live off their parents as young adults.

    I think Phil is right. I’m glad you’re passing it on to us. So what do you do with a Christian kid who says I don’t want to hear anymore about God. Don’t talk to me about it.

    There is some obvious mixing of American culture into the gospel and its grievous.

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